Emotional cruelty to a child will become a crime???

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So, one of the headlines in the Times this morning was: “Emotional cruelty to a child will become a crime”…  What???  When??? And how is that going to work???  In the long string of parental alienation blogs here you can read the horrific story of the emotional abuse of my daughter Sydney by her mother and promoted by Surrey Social Services.  All I was ever guilty of was being a model father and giving everything I had to my daughter…  Surrey Social Services was so dire that in 2008, the then Secretary of State Ed Balls had to step in and fire everyone and take over its running. It’s simple, children need both parents, especially if they have the opportunity to to have them. My ex-wife just decided that she should be free to alienate my daughter from me , and severely emotionally abuse her, and Surrey Social Services not only endorsed it, they even paid for the Barrister to go into the High Court and demand it.

Outlaw emotional abuse of children? Surrey Social Services would have to be the first people to be put in jail over this new plan…  Here’s the article if you don’t want to look it up…

Tom Knowles
Last updated at 11:02AM, March 31 2014

Parents who starve their children of love and affection face being prosecuted in the criminal courts under a new law, it emerged last night. The imminent changes to child neglect laws, announced by Robert Buckland, Conservative MP for South Swindon, will make extreme emotional cruelty a crime for the first time, alongside physical and sexual abuse as crimes against children.
The Government is set to introduce the change in the Queen’s Speech in early June, making it a crime to do anything that deliberately harms a child’s “physical, intellectual, emotional, social or behavioural development”.
Mr Buckland, a part-time judge who has been campaigning on the issue, said: “We’re talking here about children who very often end up as the subject of case reviews or in child protection situations where they’re taken into care, and we’re dealing very much with the upper end of the scale.
“But it seems to me, unless we modernise the law and take into account what we now know about the severe effects on children of psychological and emotional abuse, then we’re failing a whole range of children in our society.
“One and a half million children in the UK suffer from neglect. I think it’s time that the law was updated to offer even better protection for them.”
Government sources have confirmed to the BBC that the new law is likely to be in place before the next election, and could potentially be added as an extra clause to the Criminal Justice Bill going through Parliament.
Parents found guilty of emotional cruelty could face up to ten years in prison. The new offences could also include forcing a child to witness domestic violence, forcing degrading punishments on them or making them a scapegoat.
Currently, an adult responsible for a child can be prosecuted only if he or she has deliberately assaulted, abandoned or exposed a child to suffering or injury to their health.
The Children and Young Persons Act 1933 is more than 80 years old, with certain sections dating back to 1868.
“If we ignore the growing body of scientific evidence that shows that this type of emotional, psychological course of conduct doesn’t affect children’s development then I think we’re failing to protect children adequately,” Mr Buckland said.
He added that prosecutors would still need to demonstrate that the abuse had passed the threshold of “significant harm” to the child.
The charity Action for Children has campaigned for three years for a “Cinderella Law” to make emotional neglect of children illegal.
Sir Tony Hawkhead, the charity’s chief executive, welcomed the promised change to the law as “a monumental step forward” for thousands of children suffering emotional abuse.
“I’ve met children who have been scapegoated in their families, constantly humiliated and made to feel unloved. The impact is devastating and can lead to life-long mental health problems and, in some cases, suicide,” said Sir Tony.
“We are one of the last countries in the Western world to recognise all forms of child abuse as a crime. Years of campaigning have been rewarded, the Government has listened and this law will change lives.”
A Ministry of Justice spokesman said: “The Government believes protecting children from harm is fundamental and that child cruelty is an abhorrent crime which should be punished.
“Every child should be able to grow up in a safe environment. We are considering ways the law can support this.”

The Cast-Parental Alienation Posts

Victim #1, Me: well that wasn’t too hard to get at, I’m real reachable on the web.  All my contact details are on LinkedIn, you can find them at: http://uk.linkedin.com/in/davidallen181054/.

Victim #2, my daughter Sydney: although all the proceedings are done, and she now lives in Dallas with the abuser, and she is no longer a child, and she has the full “Stockholm Syndrome” thing going, I won’t put it all out there until I have been sued at least once…

The Abuser: Meg Allen.  She has a LinkedIn profile as well, but it is an unparalleled work of autonomic fictionMeg Allen abuser.  This is the picture from her LinkedIn fiction, but I did notice that she has removed the MBA from her profile that she doesn’t have.  Great pic, alluring, great smile…  Well you can’t bag a sugar daddy if you don’t at least pretend to enjoy it can you???

# 1 Assistant Abuser: Michele Frost. Former employee of the Yank. She was spurned by chld abuser #1, michele frostthe Yank when she threw herself at him to have an affair with him.  Prolific pill taker, history of two mental breakdowns, destroyer of any male she comes in contact with.  Caused first husband Edward to have a nervous breakdown, shown considering her next victim…

# 2 Assistant Abuser: Nicola Bogle, AKA Nicki Bogle.  Prolific man hater, happy to assist in nicola bogle, abuser assistantany effort to destroy any man. Originally a co-worker of the chief abuser at the first software company the abuser worked for in the UK, master and black belt instructor in the art of “smile and screw”

And the Men? Stupid? The System?-Parental Alienation Posts

Well this is not a topic that needs to be explored very thoroughly.  Starting at the beginning, with Adam (as in Adam and Eve), men have been wrongly believing what women have told them for a very long time…  The stories in the Old Testament are pretty shocking, David & Bathsheba struts right to the front of the parade.  At least God didn’t give me one of 3 choices, one of which was the deaths of 60,000 of my countrymen…  I’ll never blame anyone else for the choices I’ve made, but I won’t be able to defend many of them either…

One of the fundamental topics, however is, why should the state allow perfectly innocent children to be serially emotionally abused by mothers who just use them as pawns to take down, often equally innocent men, and destroy them in the process; usually just for money…  Parental Alienation is a very well documented psychosis and problem.  Equally well documented are the results.  Severely emotionally abused children rarely make it past their 18th birthdays.  Why?  Because parental alienation is incredibly severe emotional abuse.  It destroys its victims.  It sucks the life out of them, it destroys all their self esteem, and they lose the will to live; all before age 18.  The abusers all have lots of other “sweet treats” to go with them, but at their hearts they are abusers, criminal abusers.  Most of them have been abused, and this abuse perpetuates itself as it does in all other forms of abuse.

Whilst I have probably devoured everything ever written about parental alienation, I could never talk to any of real people who were real victims, because the courts prohibit talking about anything having to do with children whilst the children are still children.  Has it helped any of them?  Not really, but it sure helps the abusers keep on abusing…  For every day of those 5 long years, I just wanted to talk to someone who had been there, someone who understood…  So what do I want to accomplish here?  Get it out in the open, deal with it, and fix it…

First, you need to get through your head the fact that there are some low lives out there that actually support child abuse.  A concept that seems shockingly impossible, so grow up they do…

In the coming months we will be exploring the components of the problem.  We will be naming names and shaming shames.  No doubt some of the players will read about themselves here and will try to take some actions against me,  To you, all of you, I say take your best shot.  I’ve already lost everything, there is nothing further you can take, so crack on…

About the Yank-Parental Alienation Posts

The Yank is David, he’s easy enough to track down…  He came to the UK on business in 1987, and after 5 years of back and forth, finally settled down here.  Although a Yank, and still a citizen, he is also a subject of Her Majesty the Queen, but enough about that…

David, the yankDavid grew up in a gritty Irish middle class suburb south of Boston, and was regularly mercilessly beaten by a father who turned 18 in 1943 and got to go backpacking across Europe for 2 years carrying an M1 rifle.  The stories were shocking, but then that is a topic for another day…  There was no such thing as post traumatic stress disorder, you just came home and regularly beat the crap out of everyone to blow off the steam.  Problem is that every other family I knew had the same problem, so I didn’t consider it all that unusual.  To say I was poorly prepared for any sort of relationship with the opposite sex would be a drastic understatement…

I ended up having more relationships than I’ll ever admit to and was a sitting duck waiting to be taken.  I was fortunate early on in the computer business to do pretty well, and became a millionaire before I was 40, but only just.  Successful, but not any real great shakes…  In the late 80’s I met the girl of my dreams named Eve, and married her in the early 90’s.  We had a great life together, but she had 3 kids and I had none.  The desire to have kids overcame me, and I made the most outrageous mistake of my life and fell for a woman named Meg Sung.  No she wasn’t Chinese, she had been married to a Chinaman, and she was from the Detroit suburb of Bloomfield Hills.  I didn’t learn until much later that she had a half dozen other names, but originally she was Margaret Schultz.

I’ve been waiting a long time to tell the story that no one in the story can ever tell until the story is over…  It is the story of how I’ve coped with what many psychologists are now calling the most devastating and insidious form of child abuse going.  A friend asked me recently if I missed my daughter Sydney, I replied: only on days when the sun rises…

Parental alienation is a pretty straightforward concept to understand, it is where one parent engages in any and every form of destruction of the other parent (verbal, physical, and every other way possible) to the child or children with the aim of using that to either extort money or some other bit of collateral from the other parent.  Most of the time it is women doing it against men, but occasionally it goes the other way.  Most of the spousal physical abuse in the world we live in is from out-of-control & bad-tempered men onto women. it has reached the point now here in the United Kingdom, where a woman just has to pick up the phone and say the word abuse, and there will be a parade of police cars there in moments.  Parental Alienators are child abusers, and those who assist them assist child abuse, and in the case of Social Services here, they promote it…

My experience is that if you are a man, you are for the most part guilty until you could prove yourself innocent. In the 5 years of the horror, and the dozens of incidents, she finally got tossed in the drunk tank for a weekend, but other than that, if you are a woman in the UK, you have carte blanche to do what you want.  I remember joking with my friends that the police would only actually pay attention if, after hacking my arm off with a butcher knife, I was holding the severed arm, had video taped it, had her sign a permission to video it, and made 4 copies of the video for them.  Then they would do something, but nothing short of that…

In the UK, there is no downside if you are a woman.  My ex-wife, Meg Allen flagrantly broke 52 separate court orders with complete impunity.  And that was not just any court, it was the High Court.  In court you always get all this blah blah blah about how serious the court orders are, the whole thing is a joke…

After reading the shocking stories of child abuse permitted and promoted by Social Services in Oxford, I decided that enough is enough…  Anyway, the Surrey story begins…